A student’s mom recently emailed me, asking why her son wasn’t fighting when things became tough. She thought it was my responsibility to make him battle, and love the pressure. I agree that I’m responsible for teaching him why he should fight, give him tools to make that fight easier… but only HE can make it happen!
I can’t teach heart. I can’t make you do anything you’re not committed to doing. The 1% mindset is exactly that – a mindset, created by you, fulfilled by you. When you ask for my help, I’ll give you my opinion on the best strategy that will maximize your chances of reaching goals … but only you can take the necessary action.
When you hit three bad shots in a row, I’ll suggest ways of keeping you focused on the next shot … but you must be committed and discipline enough to make it happen.
When you walk two batters in a row, I’ll give you mental tools to keep you focused on the very next pitch, helping you to stay in the moment … but you must be fearless enough to attack the next batter, as if you hadn’t walked anyone.
I’ll create specific visualizations to help train your subconscious to learn a desired outcome … but you must take the time to close your eyes, concentrate on your breathing, and see it all happening.
